I was just about to dive into my normal Saturday night routine with the kids, when suddenly my husband appeared with tears in his eyes. He choked on the words as he told me that our totally healthy, beautiful 3-month-old nephew, Shilo Eliezer of blessed memory, had died in his sleep that morning. The funeral would be in a few hours.
This weekend, as the rockets from Gaza began landing in Southern Israel again and my family experienced this tremendous loss, I felt the need to express my sadness and anger at death. This weeks’ blog was supposed to be about things I would tell my 25-year-old entrepreneurial self. I finished it already in my mind, just had not typed it out (one handed typing on a smart phone with a sick kid sleeping on me was not happening). After thinking about the things I wanted to tell my entrepreneurial self, I thought again about the things I needed to tell my regular old self. The things I forget as I hurry through life. The things we all could use a reminder about every now and again.
A post related to technical documentation/management will fill this space next week, but in the meantime, thanks for reading and allowing me to grieve and express in such a public way.
These are the 10 life lessons I especially need to tell myself tonight. I hope you also find them useful.
1. There is actually no such thing as a deadline. Well, there is, and it is called DEATH. Otherwise, the date is an arbitrary line in the sand that someone - somewhere - drew for something. There is always a little bit more time or someone else in the project, thing, event, occasion, episode, document, deliverable or whatever it is that can or will be moved. Do not run your life on DEADlines, rather on LIFElines. If you are a boss, make sure the people who work for you can enjoy life around the schedules you give them. If not, be prepared to rearrange. People have lives to live in addition to their jobs.